Q: What do I do if I suspect someone is a hoarder?
A:
The first thing you need to do is understand that this is not a choice. Learn as much as you can about the Illnesses behind hoarding behaviors, and do not try to force anyone to clean out their house. If the person is even aware that he/she has a problem, chances are they are scared, ashamed, depressed- you name it. Hoarding comes with a lot of emotional baggage, and he/she may be terrified about facing that emotion head-on. If you have the ability to be sympathetic, perhaps you can simply let him/her know that you are concerned about their safety and ability to carry on the activities of daily living and that you are available to talk and/or help.
You can assist them in finding a specialized therapist or psychologist/psychiatrist who has worked with compulsive hoarders to help them start to sort out the "why" and "how". From there, you can stand by them throughout the process of recovery as they attempt to clean out their lives. Being educated on hoarding and non-judgmental is what a hoarder needs most of all. However, don't be at all surprised if the hoarder resists any help.
HOWEVER, if there is a significant risk to the health or safety of the person or another resident of the household, you should speak to them immediately about seeking help. If they are unwilling, you should find resources in your community through a Senior Center, Fire Department, Housing Office, APS (Adult Protective Services) or such to ensure that they are safe.
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